Our lives are surrounded by events, challenges, opportunities, and experiences that we can use as life lessons. You’ve heard the phrase “experience is the best teacher in life”, by learning from experience or the past we can become more mature individuals.
Some moments of life are heavy and painful. However, many people are not grateful enough for the disaster that happened and say it is a curse. If someone feels this way then you have to convince yourself to accept life as it is and want to learn and renew life with a better mindset and behavior.
In everyday life, there are many people who are involved in this fleeting scenario of life. We meet a lot of people either at school, at work, or somewhere we visit. We should use each meeting effectively and efficiently. Because we don’t know what will happen tomorrow morning.
Everyone has a different character, background, hobbies, and vision, so we can feel the chemistry with that person. However, these various characters can teach us the meaning of life.
Even though we meet many people, there are at least three people we need to remember in life, namely :
People who help you when you are in trouble
Let’s remember the past that we have experienced. Of the many people such as friends, relatives, acquaintances, or strangers who are present when we are having difficulties. Maybe not much.
Most people will always be by our side when we are in good condition. Meanwhile, when we are going through difficult times, many friends are slowly leaving, no longer caring.
Therefore, for the people who are there when we are in trouble, whoever they are, we must remember them. No matter how small the help they give, they are still the best people to help you.
The person who left you when you were having a hard time
When we are in difficult circumstances, we cannot go through the day alone. Forgetting for a moment the life problems of someone who is near us can help us to lighten the burden on our minds.
However, we as humans cannot see what is in someone’s heart. Is he sincere or just taking advantage of you. Because when we are in a difficult situation, usually as humans we can’t think clearly and digest what is happening around us, so there could be a betrayal of friends here.
A traitor is difficult to detect quickly. It takes a long time to recognize someone’s authenticity. It is precisely in this difficult situation that we can see friends who are sincere to us or just want to be together when things are fine.
That’s how many characters in this life we will always meet. But remember that they will give us good or bad. They are also the ones who provide valuable “lessons” about how life really is.
People who embrace you when you are having a hard time
Among the many people who underestimate you, he is the one who always believes you will be successful one day. No matter how many times you fail, he will still encourage you and support you.
If you have people like this, you will never forget them. In your every success, it’s always their faces that you think of. So, this person will always be on your mind because they are a gift in your life.
